Anthea Grimason, Author at Samahita Retreat https://samahitaretreat.com/author/anthea-grimason/ Thu, 15 Feb 2024 09:45:49 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.4.3 https://samahitaretreat.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/cropped-favicon-samahita-1-36x36.webp Anthea Grimason, Author at Samahita Retreat https://samahitaretreat.com/author/anthea-grimason/ 32 32 How to Train to Breathe Through Your Nose https://samahitaretreat.com/how-to-train-to-breathe-through-your-nose/ https://samahitaretreat.com/how-to-train-to-breathe-through-your-nose/#respond Mon, 30 Nov 2020 04:54:25 +0000 http://samahitaretreat.com/?p=54129 The post How to Train to Breathe Through Your Nose appeared first on Samahita Retreat.

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It’s too easy to take breathing for granted, allowing the respiratory system to do its thing, keeping us alive and functioning, without any conscious effort, day and night. Is your breath pattern supporting your health in the best way it could though?

Unfortunately, many of us learned at a young age to breathe incorrectly, and / or struggled with proper breathing due to asthma, allergies and congestion. Mouth breathing or even very shallow chest breathing through the nose are patterns that when carried into adulthood can cause a host of issues. The good news is that these patterns can be reversed with proper training and attention.

What’s Wrong with Mouth Breathing?

Mouth breathing is, in short, much less efficient. Apart from loss of energy, mouth breathing can cause fairly serious issues in the long term, ranging from snoring and sleep apnea, to bad breath, jaw and teeth issues, gum disease and worsening of asthma symptoms.

The health benefits of nasal breathing, on the other hand, are vast:

  • air, temperature and humidity control
  • production of immune-boosting nitric oxide (2)
  • better quality sleep and less likely to suffer from sleep apnea
  • overall more robust lung function
  • calmer mental state through activation of the parasympathetic nervous system

Emerging research indicates that nasal breathing might even be better for performance than mouth breathing during exercise (1).

All the benefits of nasal breathing are documented in Proper Breathing is Breathing Through Your Nose, clearly highlighting why this is an important issue to tackle if you are someone that tends to breathe through your mouth. Whether your pattern is constant mouth breathing, occasional gasps through your mouth, or only night time mouth breathing, it is well worth investing the time to discover the cause and to retrain your pattern to nasal breathing, all the time.

“Mouth breathing is, in short, much less efficient. Apart from loss of energy, mouth breathing can cause fairly serious issues in the long term, ranging from snoring and sleep apnea, to bad breath, jaw and teeth issues, gum disease and worsening of asthma symptoms. …..”

What Causes Mouth Breathing?

There are a number of potential causes for mouth breathing including blockages and sinus issues which may be from:

  • food sensitivities
  • environmental sensitivities
  • asthma or allergies
  • a deviated septum

More recently mask wearing may cause a feeling of suffocation and make you want to breathe through your mouth – one to watch. However, often mouth breathing is just a habit that was developed at an early age, a pattern that was unconsciously ingrained. Due to respiratory neuroplasticity we now know that we can retrain our breathing patterns, meaning any poor functioning of the respiratory system can be reversed through consistent effort.

Training for Nose Breathing

To be successful in retraining from mouth breathing to nasal breathing you want to:

  • Become aware of your breathing patterns
  • Deal with blockages & congestion
  • Engage in daily breath training

1. Awareness

The first step is to pay attention and become aware of your daily breathing patterns. When you watch your habits, do you notice any of the following?

  • Your mouth naturally dropped open during the day
  • Gasping for air when talking
  • Gasping for air when walking
  • Waking up with a dry mouth and blocked nose
  • Regularly blocked nostrils

These are all signs that you are in fact a mouth breather, whether regular or only at night. Let’s tackle that situation!

2. Dealing with Blockages and Congestion

Naturally it will be harder to breathe through your nose if it is congested. Here are a number of ways to clear the nasal passages:

A) Neti pot and neti string

Similar to saline solution used for kids, a neti pot uses warm water with some salt poured into the nostrils, and is an excellent way to clear a blocked nose in the morning, or even at night especially after a day in a polluted environment. Check here for clear instructions.

Sutra neti or neti string is another option, a rubber string that is inserted up through one nostril and pulled out through the mouth enabling you to give your nasal passage a good floss. One side of the nose may be more blocked than the other and require a gentler approach and more time, but it should open eventually if done daily.

B) Nasya therapy

Nasya is an Ayurvedic therapy that also helps with clearing congestion in the nasal passages. It uses special herbal oil, with a few drops in each nostril then sniffed up to help clear blockages. It can be done daily after neti pot for added lubrication, as the salt water can be drying, or simply on its own each morning. This is excellent for colder, drier climates.

C) Check eating habits

If you’re finding that you’re congested every day, especially in the morning it is worth checking what food, drink, or general eating habits could be contributing to this. Try avoiding mucus-forming foods such as wheat, dairy, soy, corn and especially processed and fried foods for a while, to see if anything improves. Add bitter greens as well as cruciferous vegetables, garlic, onion and citrus fruits to counteract mucus. Alcohol can also cause inflammation leading to congestion in the sinuses so it’s best to avoid. And always avoid eating late at night, giving yourself at least a few hours between your last meal and sleep so that undigested food is not sitting in the stomach when you go to bed.

D) Check sleeping habits

If your mouth breathing is predominantly at night, signaled by dry mouth in the morning, but you are well able to breathe through your nose during the day, there are a couple of ways you can train yourself to nose breathe at night too:

  • Mouth taping:
    Use specially designed tape to literally keep your mouth shut at night. Sounds strange but is very effective. Try it and see.
  • Check sleeping position:
    If you sleep on your back and your head is tilted back this will encourage your mouth to drop open. Either change your pillows to give added support to your head so your head is not tilting, or changed your sleeping position to your side.

E) Environment

Mold, damp and pollution can all be contributing factors to congestion of the sinuses. Check for mold in your house and treat it if necessary. Use a dehumidifier in your bedroom if dampness is an issue. And for city dwellers clear your nose out daily at night using a neti pot.

Daily Training

A daily breath training practice will help you not only enhance awareness of your breathing patterns, but also train your breath so that it will eventually, naturally be through your nose for the rest of the day. Gasping for air when walking or talking is essentially hyperventilation, highly stressful on the body, and a sign for the need to slow down, to talk slower, walk slower, relax and to train the breath to a more natural, supportive rhythm.

Start by following the techniques of this relaxed approach, working from savasana to breath training, all while lying down, but with an added focus on breathing through your nose. If your nose is blocked on one side, you can lie for a moment on the opposite side using your arm or a cushion as a pillow.

If this practice becomes easy for you and you wish to advance to a seated breath practice you can follow this 10 minute breathwork practice, again with the focus always on nasal breathing. When sitting, to open up a nostril you can use a small hard cushion directly under the opposite armpit, if needed.

Breathing exercises are also becoming more popular as a natural way to treat asthma (3). I personally trained myself to breathe more through my nose and eventually grew out of my childhood asthma, later starting breathwork and then a daily pranayama practice to strengthen my respiratory function and improve overall health. You can too.

Conclusion

The habit to breathe through your mouth is often developed in childhood when nasal breathing was never fully trained, a huge opportunity missed. It can be reversed as an adult but will take time and awareness. Now especially we all want to support our immune systems to avoid viruses and have the knowledge such as the fact that nitric oxide, which is only produced in nasal breathing, is powerful in supporting immune function and in managing mucus (4). This should be motivation enough. So pay attention, and every time you notice you’re breathing through your mouth, try to close it and switch. Use some of the tips to deal with blockages when needed, and most importantly, start to train your breath pattern daily. Give it time, it may feel difficult initially, but is surely worth the effort to develop a new, healthy, energizing, immune system supporting nasal breathing pattern for the rest of your life.

References

  1. Jake Panasevich; Nasal Breathing: the Secret to Optimal Fitness?, Health.usnews.com, 2020 https://health.usnews.com/health-news/blogs/eat-run/articles/nasal-breathing-the-secret-to-optimal-fitness
  2. Jon Lundberg; Nitric Oxide and the Paranasal Sinuses, American Association for Anatomy, 2008
    https://anatomypubs.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1002/ar.20782
  3. Mike Thomas, Anne Bruton; Breathing Exercises for Asthma, European Respiratory Journal, 2014
    https://breathe.ersjournals.com/content/10/4/312#ref-31
  4. Jon Lundberg, E Weitzberg; Nasal Nitric Oxide in Man, British Medical Journal, 1999
    https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1745376/pdf/v054p00947.pdf

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5 Tips to Start and Maintain a New Healthy Habit https://samahitaretreat.com/5-tips-to-start-and-maintain-a-new-healthy-habit/ Wed, 03 Jun 2020 12:29:27 +0000 http://samahitaretreat.com/?p=53523 The post 5 Tips to Start and Maintain a New Healthy Habit appeared first on Samahita Retreat.

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Life as we know it has been on what may feel like an endless pause. For many of us this has been cause to reflect on how, like it or not, we’ve landed in this exact point in time through our every choice, habit, action and reaction so far in life. We may wonder what the greater meaning in all of this is. Does Mother Earth have a message for humanity? Have we been far too distracted from what really matters in life? Are we being given the chance to take a good look at ourselves?

We can also decide to view this time as a unique opportunity to assess, clean up and realign some of our habits as our path in life is ultimately driven by our daily actions. You become the habits you practice. To live in alignment with your path or purpose in life and what you are here to do feels natural and right yet also takes considerable commitment, brings challenges, and requires ongoing effort and determination. Needless to say, these daily habits are worth looking at if we want to ensure we are on track.

How to Upgrade your Habits

If you are ready to change your habits psychologically it can be easier to think about adding something to your life, enriching it with new ways, rather than taking away, depriving, and giving something up. Are there new healthy habits you have adopted lately you’d like to continue, such as more family time, making conscious efforts to connect with community, working less, a breath practice, dancing, reading, or cooking more? Adding a new habit that brings more value to your life can naturally allow other habits that no longer serve us to drop away.

Of course, the process takes time. Dr. Daniel Amen, a leading psychiatrist and brain health expert in the US suggests it takes around 70 days to retrain your brain from addictions. While a study on the creation of new habits (1) showed that the time to automate a habit varied considerably from 18 to 254 days, so 66 days on average. This may feel a bit disheartening, but it can also be a relief to know that we need to give space to allow the process of a new habit to unfold naturally while simultaneously keeping up the effort. It can take the pressure off. The study also showed that missing doing the new habit once did not actually affect the process. So the odd slip up is ok and you can just jump back in. Good news.

“It takes around 70 days to retrain your brain from addictions”

5 Tips to Help New Habits Stick

  1. Really Know Why
    Know, very clearly, why you want to take on a new habit in the first place. Whether it be healthy cooking for your family’s health, breathwork for stress relief (2), or an activity that simply brings you joy, it should be of high value to you. Having a really strong ‘why’ can be the difference between starting and stopping a habit and keeping it up. Think of it as your long term reward, to remind yourself every day of why you want to embrace this practice or habit, especially the days when you don’t feel like it.
  2. Keep it Simple
    Like any goals, intentions or resolutions, if they are not easily achievable they simply will not stick. Don’t be over ambitious and take on too much. Start easy, keep it short and simple, and keep it up every day until it’s embedded in your daily life.
  3. Delay Gratification
    To motivate yourself, delay that short term reward of your delicious daily coffee, or allowing yourself some social media scrolling, until after you’ve done what you said you’d do. In today’s instant gratification society, we are so used to attaining what we want immediately that we get hooked on being stimulated through its dopamine hit of pleasure. The effect of this is loss in focus on long term goals as the desire to constantly seek out short term gratification overrides it. Change this by using delayed gratification for better success with your goals and a healthier brain that has more control.
  4. Add to Your Daily Routine
    Another helpful tactic is to make your new habit part of your current every day routine by attaching the behavior to something you already do every day. For example, adding breathing exercises before or after your asana (body posture) practice if that’s already a routine you have in place, sitting for 10 minutes of meditation when you come home from work, or dancing before dinner! Associating your new habit with another habit you know you will not miss.
  5. Have Support
    Finally, use your support system, whether a friend who wants to join you, a teacher or a family member, to help you stay on track. Always feel free to check in with us here at a Samahita, send in your questions, engage, join our online community, we are here to support. Be open and clear about your goal and hold yourself accountable to what you want to do by sharing it with others and asking for help when needed.

Knowing how to ingrain habits can also support you with your practice at home. At Samahita we provide a solid education and training in breathwork, one of the main reasons students return year after year. Initially, however, some can struggle to keep it up when they go home even with the best of intentions – life gets in the way, they drop the practice, return to learn again, practice for a while, drop it again etc. Eventually it may become ingrained but without the accountability from a teacher that one might have with, for example, an asana practice, it can be harder to really embed the habit. Now may be an excellent opportunity to do just that, if it has been a call for you, using the above tips.

What a gift to give yourself during this time, whether it is a new breathwork practice (3), or a practice you’ve started multiple times and really want to now embed in your life. It doesn’t matter, begin now, with stronger intention and some extra determination.

We have all been given this gift of a reset. A chance to begin again. To realize what is important in life, and to drop needless distractions. A chance to wake up to a new way of doing things, more aligned with our own personal growth and path, if we choose to accept this opportunity in front of us as life begins to open up again. Embrace it and this could be the starting point of a new healthy habit for life.

1. How are habits formed: Modeling habit formation in the real world: https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1002/ejsp.674

2. Breathwork for anxiety and other difficulties:
https://samahitaretreat.com/breathwork-for-anxiety-and-other-difficulties/

3. Breathing exercise for beginners:
https://samahitaretreat.com/breathing-exercise-for-beginners/


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Earth Ode: for Earth Day 2020 https://samahitaretreat.com/earth-day-2020/ Tue, 21 Apr 2020 07:41:57 +0000 http://samahitaretreat.com/?p=53080 The post Earth Ode: for Earth Day 2020 appeared first on Samahita Retreat.

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April 22 is Earth Day, with this year marking its 50th anniversary. The theme for Earth Day 2020 is climate action. Climate change represents the biggest challenge to the future of humanity and the life-support systems that make our world habitable. Join Earth Day Live for 24 hours of hope and optimism with live streamed discussions and actions you can take from wherever you are on www.earthday.org. And enjoy Anthea’s poem in honour of this important day….

We terrorize your rich soil
Yet we are you
And you are us
Nature is our very soul

We behave as if separate
Living how we choose
With no concept
Of how much there is to lose

Fulfilling every whim
Destructive as we go
Entertainment our focus
Neglecting our home

Home of our bodies
Home of the soil
The clay that forms us
They land that holds us

We are the fire, it’s flames our fears
We are the hurricanes, the rains our tears
We are the earthquakes, the cracks our sadness
We are the cyclones, the wind our madness

Forgive us, Mother Earth
For our unknowing
We are still learning
Like children, still growing

Coming to understand
That it’s us in danger
Of extinction from our actions
The blindness of man

What do we expect
When we treat
This our own home
With such disrespect

You are safe
You will survive
The mother, the lover,
The giver of life

It is us, your children
So naive in our search
For happiness out there
Of which there is no end

But it was always inside
Within your embrace
Within the bodies and souls
We’ve been graced

To realize this
Is the only path
To less destruction
To stopping this madness

Reaching always for more
When we already have it all
We already
Have it all


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How to do a Simple Elimination Diet https://samahitaretreat.com/how-to-do-a-simple-elimination-diet/ Fri, 28 Feb 2020 04:54:11 +0000 http://samahitaretreat.com/?p=52706 The post How to do a Simple Elimination Diet appeared first on Samahita Retreat.

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Elimination diets are often recommended to determine the cause of gastrointestinal issues and food intolerances. An intolerance being where you have trouble digesting a particular food and experience some manageable symptoms, as opposed to an allergy which is a lot more serious. The point of the diet is to temporarily remove all potential causes of the symptoms and to reintroduce them slowly to test how you react. While the approach sounds simple in theory, it can in reality be rather challenging to do as we are so used to the foods we eat every day. Radically changing our eating habits, even temporarily takes some planning, preparation, and determination. There is however a simple version that can prove to be helpful for many.

The most restrictive of elimination diets removes every possible cause of any symptom all at once. This would include alcohol, caffeine, sugar, gluten, dairy, soy, nuts, nightshades, corn, eggs, processed meats, shellfish and more. If many of these foods are part of your every day life, then removing them all at once will of course be incredibly challenging. This type of elimination diet requires a couple of months’ commitment and would ideally be supported and recommended by a health coach, nutritionist or functional medicine doctor who can guide the process, and may be necessary for more serious symptoms.

For milder but ongoing symptoms such as bloating, gas, indigestion, occasional constipation or diarrhea, headaches, rashes or fatigue, then a simpler approach of temporarily removing just a few food types at a time can still be helpful. To keep it simple focus first on foods that are most likely to be causing issues, which for many would be gluten from wheat and cow’s milk protein, the two most common culprits for intolerances. Of course many of us can benefit from reducing or eliminating sugar, alcohol and caffeine so feel free to remove any of these also especially if they feature highly in your diet. The simple approach takes a commitment of around one month including preparation, two weeks of elimination and the reintroduction period.

Preparation Stage

First, determine what food types you will remove for a simple elimination diet. To do this consider the typical food groups that cause issues which, apart from wheat and milk, would be all gluten, all dairy, eggs, soy and corn.

From these foods groups then consider what you eat every day or the most often, the foods that you crave the most, and those that you’re most attached to. Often it can be the foods we eat all the time that cause us issues. So if you rarely eat soy this may not be necessary to eliminate, but if you have a daily soy latte habit and have skin breakouts, for example, then it’s worth considering. This is the tricky part as it’s much harder to give up a favorite food or drink, but think of it as simply an experiment for a month. Select two to four initial foods groups that you will eliminate based on your list of favorite foods and whether they fall into the common culprit list.

Next, plan how you will replace these foods over a two-week period which means thinking about alternatives for each meal. If you are eliminating all dairy then you will need to avoid milk, cream, cheese, yogurt, butter and ice cream. Nut milks and cheeses can be good replacements. If you are eliminating all gluten then avoid any foods that contain wheat, spelt, oats (unless certified gluten-free), rye, barley, and malt. Replace with rice, quinoa or millet unless eliminating all grains.

Finally, get organized, go food shopping, and make sure you have enough supplies at home for a full two-week period at the very least.

Elimination Stage

The elimination stage requires a minimum of two weeks. Eliminate your specific food groups completely for this period – no cheat days! It’s important to read food labels if you are buying anything packaged, as many of the culprits such as gluten, sugar and corn, sneak into processed foods. A longer elimination of up to a month can be good if you have the stamina, especially if you are only starting to feel the benefits at the end of two weeks. But start with two weeks and see how you feel.

Make note of how you feel every day during this stage. Symptoms may initially get a little worse before they get better so don’t panic if that happens. If your symptoms disappear then that’s a good indication that one of food groups was causing issues. Not everyone will feel better as food may not be the culprit, but this is a great experiment for testing it out.

Sample Elimination Stage (Week 1 & 2):

Remove all gluten, dairy, soy and eggs.

Drink plenty of water during this phase and ensure to eat enough fats and protein to keep blood sugars stable.

Reintroduction Stage

During this stage we want test each food group individually by adding them back in one at a time and allowing at least two days to check if they cause any adverse reactions. Take note in particular of how your digestion is working during this phase.

When adding back in a food type, only add it in for one reintroduction day then eliminate it again for the rest of this stage. Start slowly, adding in the food in it’s purest form rather than in processed food, into one meal. If there is no issue add it again in other meals that day. Then eliminate it again for the next two days.

Sample Reintroduction Stage (Week 3 & 4):

  • Day 1: add back in dairy only
  • Days 2 & 3: eliminate dairy again; monitor symptoms
  • Day 4: add back in wheat only
  • Days 5 & 6: eliminate wheat again; monitor symptoms
  • Day 7: add back in eggs only
  • Days 8 & 9: eliminate eggs again; monitor symptoms
  • Day 10: add back in soy only
  • Days 11 & 12: eliminate soy again; monitor symptoms

New Food Plan

Having tested each of the food types and noted your symptoms and reactions you should be able to determine if any of the eliminated foods were causing you adverse reactions. Now it’s time to decide if you wish to permanently change your way of eating following this experiment. If any of your symptoms improved during elimination but came back after the reintroduction of one particular food type, you might consider keeping that food out of your diet for a longer period of at least another month to see if improvements continue. If you remain symptom-free you can always try adding that food back in later to see if your body still reacts. It may just be that your body needed a break or can only handle smaller amounts of that particular food type. Or, you may immediately notice your symptoms returning and decide this food is not for you. At least now you have the information on what works for you and what doesn’t.

When adding back in all foods that have no adverse effect go slowly and try to avoid binging on all the foods you missed! And if you wish to continue experimenting with other foods you can repeat the cycle with another group of two to four food types.

Multiple times a day, every single day we make food choices. With this simple elimination diet with a commitment of just a month, you can arm yourself with some powerful information about what works for you and therefore make better choices for your own body, every single day.


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Do We Really Need To Detox? https://samahitaretreat.com/do-we-really-need-to-detox/ Fri, 31 Jan 2020 04:54:10 +0000 http://samahitaretreat.com/?p=52395 The post Do We Really Need To Detox? appeared first on Samahita Retreat.

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A Scientific & Holistic Perspective

With the rise in popularity of detox programs, products and gimmicks there is much warranted debate and push back around certain claims from the detox industry. It’s easy to dismiss the detox movement when most of what is being sold to us has very little or zero scientific evidence to back it up. Yet cleansing practices have existed for thousands of years, so why is that? Are we even toxic? Is detoxification a real process in the body? Do any of these modern detox programs or products actually work? All valid questions in this debate.

The fact that our bodies have an in-built detoxification process is often noted as reason to dismiss all detox programs. This may be true but then the question arises, is that process working to the best of its ability to support our health to the fullest?

In this article we’ll look at what toxins we are being exposed to in the modern world, why they can cause issues, our body’s natural ability to eliminate toxins and what we can do to support this, both with an evidence based detox program and in daily life.

What are toxins exactly?

Toxins can be grouped into a number of categories:

  • Toxic elements e.g. mercury, cadmium, arsenic and lead, generally transmitted through water, food, dust, dental fillings and various consumer products
  • Naturally occurring toxins e.g. mold or aflatoxins (found on crops such as corn and peanuts), and any allergens from animals, plants or food
  • Pesticides e.g. insecticides, fungicides and herbicides
  • Persistent organic pollutants e.g. dioxins, furans, Teflon and polychlorinated biphenyls
  • Volatile organic compounds e.g. gas or petrol, solvents, paint, formaldehyde or benzene
  • Plastics e.g. phthalates, BPA and PVC which leach out via UV radiation, heat and chemicals

With around 140,000 chemicals on the global market, exposure in today’s world is unfortunately inevitable. According to UN Environment, the size of the global industry exceeded US$5 trillion in 2017 and is projected to double by 2030, with urgent action required to reduce further damage to human health and economies. “Despite commitments to maximize the benefits and minimize the impacts of this industry, hazardous chemicals continue to be released to the environment in large quantities. They are ubiquitous in air, water and soil, food and humans.”1

An interesting area of study that is growing is around the Exposome2 which measures the total impact of environmental exposure (pollution, toxins, stress, lifestyle, nutrition) even before birth. Many studies have also been done on newborn babies with hundreds of these toxins showing up in their fetal cord blood, for example the Environmental Working Group study which found 287 toxic chemicals in fetal cord blood of 10 newborns.3

While it does seem that exposure to toxins is unavoidable, what will vary is an individual’s personal toxic load and how that plays out in their life. This will obviously depend on a number of factors including total exposure throughout their lifetime, current environment, diet and lifestyle, and the efficiency of their body’s ability to process and excrete toxins.

Why are toxins an issue for us?

The human body is highly intelligent with built-in detoxification pathways in many of the tissues, not just the liver, known as the main organ of detox, but also in the kidneys, lungs, intestines, skin and testes. Toxins can only be excreted via these pathways when they are water soluble however, at which point they are excreted naturally via saliva, tears, urine, feces, sweat, or are exhaled. Fat soluble toxins, on the other hand, tend to accumulate in the body, mainly in fat cells but also in other tissues. Toxic elements such as metals, for example, tend to accumulate in the brain, kidneys, liver and bones. This is one issue.

Another issue can be impaired detoxification abilities within the body. A person’s detox capacity is highly influenced by their diet and lifestyle and will most certainly be impacted if any liver or kidney issues, gastrointestinal health issues or micronutrient deficiencies exist, or if there is toxic overload.

Our bodies, therefore, are not necessarily naturally getting rid of these toxins that we are being exposed to, but the real issue is the resulting health problems including serious disease if toxins are allowed to accumulate. Persistent organic pollutants, for example, have been associated with diabetes, obesity and endocrine disruption. Volatile organic compounds are considered highly neurotoxic. And plastics are known to cause endocrine disruption. Large global organizations such as the World Health Organisation4 and the Endocrine Society are actively studying the real risks of endocrine-disrupting chemicals.

According to the WHO, “just over one third (35%) of ischaemic heart disease, the leading cause of deaths and disability worldwide, and about 42% of stroke, the second largest contributor to global mortality, could be prevented by reducing or removing exposure to chemicals such as from ambient air pollution, household air pollution, second-hand smoke and lead.”5 And approximately 19% of all cancers are estimated to have a direct environmental exposure cause.6 It is now understood that causes of complex diseases like cancer are not solely based on genetics but also the effect of environmental factors such as exposure to chemicals, as well as aspects of lifestyle.

This information helps us understand that toxic exposure is a real issue especially as it’s correlated with serious disease, and that even early life poses risk of exposure, meaning we all most likely already have a burden that needs to taken care of. It might be in our best interest then to ensure we are supporting our bodies in doing its job of excreting that which is not needed.

How do we support detoxification?

The good news is that it is possible to get rid of the fat soluble toxins that are stored in our tissues via the body’s own detoxification process, which is essentially the biotransformation of fat soluble toxins into water soluble toxins so we can excrete them. The problem with most detox programs or products is that they are not considering the full detoxification process from mobilization to excretion, rather looking at one isolated area. Or, the actual process is simply not understood.

At a cellular level, the four phases of detoxification are:

  • Phase 0, the intake of a fat soluble toxin into the cell.
  • Phase I, the process of oxidation/reduction reactions which turns the toxin into a free radical
  • Phase II, the addition of reactive metabolites with an endogenous compound e.g. glutathione conjugation, which creates a water-soluble toxin that is no longer a free radical
  • Phase III, the excretion of the water soluble toxin from the cell

First the toxins must be mobilized. Then only after all four stages of detoxification are complete are the toxins water soluble and can be excreted via sweat, tears, urine, feces or breath.

As mentioned in a previous article, an effective detox program therefore must include:

  • mobilization (removing stored toxins from tissues and cells)
  • detoxification (biotransformation of toxins through the four phases)
  • excretion (the elimination of toxins from the body)

All this can be achieved by calorie restriction, very specific foods and supplements, as well as exercise and sweating.

This clear understanding of what detoxification actually is, as researched and being taught by people like Functional Medicine doctor, Dr. Bryan Walsh, unfortunately debunks many of the detox products and practices out there as they are either incomplete or simply have no evidence as to their effectiveness.

Prevention is better than cure

Ideally we aim to prevent accumulation of toxins, and therefore the risk of disease from the inevitable exposure, with what we can control – our lifestyle. Traditional systems like Ayurveda and Chinese Medicine are designed to work towards prevention of disease with a more holistic approach than modern medicine, by focusing on maintaining the body’s natural healthy state.7 Cleansing practices that are either done daily to support overall health, or as part of a detox program have also always been part of Ayurvedic and Yogic traditions.

The key really is what we do every day to take care of our bodies. Naturally, a person who is active, eats well, stays hydrated, sweats, sleeps well, breathes well and spends plenty of time in nature will likely not have as high a toxic load as a person with a terrible lifestyle living in a congested city. All the elements have to be managed.

We will continue to cover practices and tips for managing daily life in our educational blogs and articles, but specifically for detox some helpful practices to incorporate include:

  • Eating a whole foods diet8 with plenty of cruciferous vegetables
  • Intermittent fasting
  • Exercise and movement
  • Staying hydrated
  • Sweating regularly
  • Practicing breathwork
  • Spending time in nature

Conclusion

The detox debate is important as who would want to waste time and money on something that doesn’t work? At Samahita, we draw upon the holistic wisdom of ancient traditions, but also invest considerable time in studying the latest research in health, to provide genuinely effective tools and the right environment to our guests, so they can maintain or move towards good health and vitality. All that we offer is based on years of personal and guest experience, ongoing yogic studies along with scientific research, to provide an environment, programs and nutrition that offer a natural detox.

Bottom line is – we are undoubtedly exposed to toxins, we may need the help of a detox program, but lifestyle plays a huge role in managing the effects of modern life. Let’s help our intelligent bodies do the work to detox, and let’s apply some discernment with our choices, also.

1 UN Report: Urgent action needed to tackle chemical pollution as global production is set to double by 2030:  https://www.unenvironment.org/news-and-stories/press-release/un-report-urgent-action-needed-tackle-chemical-pollution-global

2 The Exposome: measuring the complex exposures we face as humans: https://humanexposomeproject.com/ 

3 EWG. Body Burden: The pollution in newborns: https://www.ewg.org/research/body-burden-pollution-newborns

4 WHO. Identification of risks of endocrine-disrupting chemicals: overview of existing practices and steps ahead: https://apps.who.int/iris/bitstream/handle/10665/159343/Identification-risks-endocrine-disrupting-chemicals-overview-en.pdf?sequence=1&isAllowed=y

5 WHO. Preventing disease through healthy environments. A global assessment of the burden of disease from environmental risks:

https://apps.who.int/iris/bitstream/handle/10665/204585/9789241565196_eng.pdf?sequence=1&isAllowed=y

6 WHO. An overview of the evidence on environmental and occupational determinants of cancer: https://www.who.int/phe/news/events/international_conference/Background_science.pdf

7 Ayurvedic Biology – An Unbiased Approach to Understand Traditional Health-Care System:

https://www.researchgate.net/publication/297663091_Ayurvedic_Biology_-_An_Unbiased_Approach_to_Understand_Traditional_Health-Care_System

8 NCBI. Modulation of Metabolic Detoxification Pathways Using Foods and Food-Derived Components: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/26167297


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Many cultures around the world have enjoyed induced sweating rituals for centuries, from saunas in Finland to Russian banyas, all of which have become popular worldwide today for health benefits. In recent years, science has provided clear evidence that induced sweating is particularly effective for the elimination of toxins. Good information for anyone that wants to embark on an evidence based detox program.

An Effective Detox Includes:

  1. Mobilization: the liberation of stored toxins from tissues and cells, accomplished by calorie restriction, consuming specific macronutrients, time restricted eating, exercise, and sauna sessions.
  2. Detoxification: the proper metabolism and biotransformation of toxins through all four phases of detoxification, so they can be effectively excreted and eliminated from the body, accomplished through the consumption of specific foods, beverages, and supplements.
  3. Excretion: the elimination of detoxified xenobiotics from the body, accomplished by sweating during exercise and sauna, and specific binding supplements.

    Sweating is key to both the mobilization and excretion of toxins.

In Ayurveda this has likely been understood for thousands of years, as sweating therapy is a key part of panchakarma, the Ayurvedic detoxification program that is still popular today. Panchakarma patients undergo swedana (sweating therapy) to help mobilize toxins into the GI tract for elimination, as well as out through the skin, in preparation for other treatments within the program.

These days, it has been backed up by scientific research specifically on the elimination of toxins through blood, urine and sweating, that induced sweating is indeed an effective method, and often more effective than other methods for eliminating certain toxins such as metals from our bodies.

At Samahita, while we honour ancient wisdom and practices, we also look to the latest scientific research for validation, to ensure the highest quality of our programs, and to continuously improve them to support modern day life. One of the best updated and researched functional medical approaches to detox is Dr. Bryan Walsh’s detox program. Samahita’s programs are similarly aligned in that we offer induced sweating as well as yogic practices, exercise, specific nourishing food, and healing body and mind therapies, all beneficial for detoxing in a natural way.

We will look closer at types of toxins we are being exposed to and the detoxification process within the cells in further blogs in this series. For now, let’s say it’s clear that today we are all exposed to many toxins whether from the environment, food, water and household products. The affect of these really depends on the health of the person. Someone with a good diet, who exercises, eliminates well, sweats, has a fairly healthy lifestyle and maintains a good weight will likely not hold on to as many toxins as someone who doesn’t. Toxins that are not water soluble are typically stored in fat cells, tissues and sometimes bone, and have the ability to cause cellular dysfunction, by damaging DNA, mitochondria, and disturbing epigenetic expression.

What the research shows is that an effective detox program supports the full end-to-end process, starting from the initial mobilization of the toxins, to the detoxification process within the cells, including the biotransformation of fat soluble to water soluble toxins that can be excreted, and finally the excretion of the toxins once they are out of the cells, through various pathways.

What the Research on the Effectiveness of Induced Sweating and Toxin Elimination says:

Sweating helps eliminate phthalates

Phthalates are chemical compounds that are used frequently in plastics, household products and cosmetics.

“The phthalate family of chemical compounds are components of innumerable everyday consumer products, resulting in a high exposure scenario for some individuals
Some parent phthalates as well as their metabolites were excreted into sweat.”

The study concluded:

“Induced perspiration may be useful to facilitate elimination of some potentially toxic phthalate compounds including DEHP and MEHP. Sweat analysis may be helpful in establishing the existence of accrued DEHP in the human body.”

Sweating shown to be useful for elimination of BPA

BPA stands for bisphenol A — an industrial chemical that is used to make certain plastics and resins.

“In 16 of 20 participants, BPA was identified in sweat, even in some individuals with no BPA detected in their serum or urine samples.”
The study concluded that sweat analysis and induced sweating should be considered for analysis of BPA levels and its elimination:
“Biomonitoring of BPA through blood and/or urine testing may underestimate the total body burden of this potential toxicant. Sweat analysis should be considered as an additional method for monitoring bioaccumulation of BPA in humans. Induced sweating appears to be a potential method for elimination of BPA.”

Arsenic, cadmium, lead and mercury levels shown to be higher in sweat than urine or blood

This review focused on heavy metal excretion during induced perspiration and found that the concentration of toxic metals in sweat sometimes exceeded plasma or urine concentrations, and that arsenic and cadmium were especially concentrated in sweat.

“In individuals with higher exposure or body burden, sweat generally exceeded plasma or urine concentrations, and dermal could match or surpass urinary daily excretion. Arsenic dermal excretion was severalfold higher in arsenic-exposed individuals than in unexposed controls. Cadmium was more concentrated in sweat than in blood plasma.”

Note also how repeated sauna use brought mercury levels back to normal:

“Mercury levels normalized with repeated saunas in a case report. Sweating deserves consideration for toxic element detoxification.”

Sweating helps eliminate toxic trace metals

This study shows how sauna therapy was helped eliminate metals such as nickel, copper, zinc and lead.

“Sweating is a demonstrably significant route for excretion of trace metals, and sweating may play a role in trace-metal homeostasis. Essential trace metals could conceivably be depleted during prolonged exposure to heat; conversely, sauna bathing might provide a therapeutic method to increase elimination of toxic trace metals.”

Toxic elements preferentially excreted through sweat

This study again shows how certain toxins showed up in sweat that did not show up in blood or urine, therefore must have been stored in the body.

“Many toxic elements appeared to be preferentially excreted through sweat. Presumably stored in tissues, some toxic elements readily identified in the perspiration of some participants were not found in their serum. Induced sweating appears to be a potential method for elimination of many toxic elements from the human body.”

We can conclude from the scientific literature that induced sweating may be a very effective method to support the elimination of toxic trace metals and certain compounds. While not all compounds are effectively eliminated by sweat, it seems imperative to induce sweat daily as part of a well structured detox program, in order to support both the initial mobilization and the elimination of toxins from the body.

At Samahita, we provide a complimentary steam room to all guests every evening, and have two saunas, a full-spectrum infrared sauna plus a pure near infrared sauna, that guests can book, which are automatically included as part of our wellness programs.

Footnotes

(1) https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/23213291

Human elimination of phthalate compounds: blood, urine, and sweat (BUS) study.

(2) https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/22253637

Human excretion of bisphenol A: blood, urine, and sweat (BUS) study.

(3) https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/22505948

Arsenic, cadmium, lead, and mercury in sweat: a systematic review.

(4) http://clinchem.aaccjnls.org/content/19/11/1288

Atomic Absorption Spectrometry of Nickel, Copper, Zinc, and Lead in Sweat Collected from Healthy Subjects during Sauna Bathing

(5) https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/21057782

Blood, urine, and sweat (BUS) study: monitoring and elimination of bioaccumulated toxic elements.


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Most people really suffer from jet lag after travelling long distances. The good news is that suffering IS avoidable — you just have to be willing to change some flying habits i.e. not do what most people are doing on long flights. It’s worth it!

Working at Samahita, on an island in Thailand, means inevitable long trips for many of us. We have become more and more accustomed to this over the years having trialed all the ways to hack jet lag. It’s so important for us to be able to land with the least amount of impact from a long trip, and get straight to work with joy, even after having travelled half way across the world. And of course, we also want to help our guests to get more out of their stay too.

Yes, there may be fatigue. This is normal as your circadian rhythm is inevitably off, and sleep deprivation is perhaps unavoidable. But that groggy, heavy yet wired feeling that lasts for days is unnecessary suffering. All it takes is a little bit of preparation.

Here are our top tips for surviving long haul flights and to feeling as best as you can when you land.

Before your flight:

  • Prepare to sleep, or at least rest. Wear comfortable clothes, and pack an eye mask, neck pillow and good ear plugs or noise cancelling headphones in your hand luggage.
  • Hydrate before you board, drinking tons of water the day of your flight. Avoid caffeine and alcohol before your flight. Fill up your water bottle.
  • Eat a good, healthy meal before you leave, or at the airport if necessary. Prepare a healthy snack to take with you such as homemade trail mix, for emergencies or when you land.
  • Wear blue light blocking glasses to avoid the stark fluorescent light in airports and on planes that will keep you awake by messing with your melatonin production.

On your flight:

  • Continue to hydrate. Ask for your water bottle to be filled up regularly. No alcohol or caffeine on the flight, as tempting as it is.
  • Fast. At the very least avoid the dense, processed airplane ‘food’ that was prepared hours beforehand. This stodge sitting in your system for the duration of the flight is devastating to your digestion and will make you feel sluggish and weary when you land. Try to fast completely. It’s so easy to eat out of boredom or because you think you should be hungry. If you do feel hungry, first drink more water or herbal tea as you may just be dehydrated.
  • Sleep or rest for your usual sleep time e.g. 6-8 hours. If it’s nighttime when you get on the flight try to go to sleep immediately with an eye mask and ear plugs or relaxing music with noise cancelling headphones, ignoring the meal that will likely be served.
  • Supplements such as low dose melatonin (1-3mg) to help you sleep or at least rest and the Ayurvedic herb, triphala, to support your digestion are good to take.
  • After this period, take walks, stretch and move your body. Practice a few pre-nauli or nauli to keep your digestive system moving. Then enjoy your movies!

When You land:

  • Get some natural light if it’s daytime when you land. Otherwise, go to bed but get up at dawn and go outside. Light therapy is powerful: “One of the best ways to handle jet lag is to get up at dawn on your first wake up day in your new time zone and be outside, under the light looking towards the sun, whether cloudy or clear skies” – Paul Dallaghan.
  • Ground yourself. Flying is unnatural and extreme for the body, hence the feeling of being so disorientated after a long trip. Try to ‘land’ by walking barefoot on the grass, or along the beach if at Samahita.
  • Release tension from sitting for so long by legs up against the wall, a good sweat in a sauna or steam room, or with a massage which also helps sleep.
  • Get on the new clock. Try to stay up until it’s nearly bedtime, as tired as you may be, to improve chances of getting a good night’s sleep.
  • Sleep is key. Avoid stimulation and blue light before bed and continue supplementing with low dose melatonin for a few days after you land, if necessary.
  • Eat warm, cooked, clean and nourishing foods, and only eat when you’re hungry to help balance Vata. Avoid raw, cold food and drinks. Continue to take triphala before you go to bed for a few days until your digestive system is regular again.
  • Keep hydrated by drinking lots of water. Add some sea salt, lime or both for electrolytes.
  • Move your body. You may not have as much energy but a light yoga practice or workout the first morning can help you adjust.

Happy, safe travels!


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“We believe in, and are excited about, offering you value and quality in space, place and activity – a truly healthy and clean choice of food, an environment where you can personally transform, and a set of tools and practices you can learn, bring home, and keep up that help your life and well-being.”

Samahita means centered, being in balance, integration of vitality and peace in your life. We exist to support all those who visit to find more ‘Samahita’ in their lives. Since 2003 we have been hosting guest teachers of integrity that are aligned with our purpose from around the globe, that have offered a wide range of programs from yoga to fitness, meditation, Qigong, as well as yoga teacher trainings.

Along with our own year-round programs at Samahita, our aim is to provide the perfect space and facilities for such groups to thrive, with the right environment, facilities and support from our staff.

“Samahita was amazing! We ran a yoga retreat and the efficiency of Samahita and staff made it more like a holiday for us. Everything ran smoothly. Our clients loved the place, the staff, the activities, accommodation and the food. As did we. Can’t rate Samahita highly enough.” ~ recent Tripadvisor review from a guest teacher

What Samahita Offers:

Location, Location, Location
An unspoiled tropical beach location on a quiet part of Koh Samui in the Gulf of Thailand.

Comfortable Accommodation:
Clean, modern, eco-friendly rooms with shared, semi-private and private options.

Shared Loft 1

Dedicated Spaces:
We cater towards large and small groups with a selection of indoor and outdoor shalas available to suit your retreat.

Beach Shala Class

Food for the Soul:
Clean, delicious, fresh, nutritious meals and drinks with plenty of options for vegans, vegetarians, pescatarians, and any allergies or intolerances.

Delicious Food

Weekly Excursions:
Your group may join our weekly temple walk, a boat trip to a nearby island with snorkeling, or visit the Friday night street market, all provided complimentary.

Swim

Wellness Center:
A choice of wonderful treatments and therapies are available for your guests with options for them to add on other wellness programs such as a detox.

Therapeutic Massage

Community Vibe or Personal Time:
Guests can be as social as they like, eating together in our open dining area and forming lifelong friendships, or taking some personal time by the beach or pool.

Learn More:

Check out some reviews from top international teachers and read more about how to host a retreat at Samahita. To join our community of global teachers and leaders, fill in the application form to be considered, including your preferred dates. 2020 is already filling up fast but there are still some spots available, in particular towards end of the year, while dates for 2021 have just opened.

Whether a seasoned retreat leader or newer to the process, we welcome applications from all who want to bring a group and feel aligned with Samahita Retreat and what we offer.

We look forward to collaborating,

Team Samahita


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Fear shows up for me a lot, as I believe it does for many of us. It can show up in yoga practice (scared of being upside down, anyone?!), when you have to make big decisions, take action, speak up for yourself, or ask for help. The difference for me now is that I’ve simply got better at acting despite fear. Because at some point I recognized that fear was the biggest blocker between where I was and who I wanted to be, living the life I wanted. As Jack Canfield put it, ‘everything you want is on the other side of fear.’

Going from extreme shyness to quiet confidence in life has taken much practice, and to this day I am still practicing, and I still experience fear, all the time. But without a doubt the most meaningful experiences, achievements and adventures I’ve had in my life have only been possible due to, slowly and over many, many years, developing a stronger ability to overcome fear.

Even a successful entrepreneur, exuding in confidence, recently told me he had to overcome major fear to start his new venture, a statement that surprised me initially as he seemed like the last person to ever have fear. But we all have fears, it’s a natural part of life. Fear of rejection, fear of being alone, fear of not being good enough, fear of commitment, fear of failure, fear of success, fear of our own power, fear of being seen, fear of being honest with ourselves, fear of death – it’s endless.

The fact is, we can’t avoid suffering, but what we can change is how we deal with our fear of suffering. Either we get good at facing it or, if not, avoiding it, and so fear wins. Whatever you choose will have an impact, but it’s your choice.

So how do we overcome fear?

Although I’ve never read the book “Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway” the title has always stuck with me. Sometimes it’s just plain courage that’s needed to face fear. But having reflected a bit more on how to act despite fear, I’ve realized that for me it’s a process, a cycle that never ends. The steps or methods below that have worked for me are all about taking responsibility for your own thoughts about fear, and challenging them, ultimately giving your mind a new story about fear.

Recognize that it’s fear

This might sound obvious but it actually takes practice. You see our minds will make a million excuses about why we don’t like something, why we don’t think we should do something, and distract us from that thing that we don’t want to face. We want to avoid the things we are scared of, naturally! So it takes a moment of awareness to stop and look at a situation and take responsibility for how we’re dealing with it, rather than blaming external factors or running away from it.

Ask yourself: Is this just my fear that’s in the way?
If yes, ok good. Now you know!

Understand how you deal with change

Many of us fear change. In my past life as a corporate Change Manager I witnessed first hand the three types of people that exist in relation to change:
Fast adopters: always the first to go with changes
Slow adopters: will get there but slow at first, need encouragement and reassurance
Resisters: will resist to the end, very uncomfortable with change
It’s important to be able to identify which type of person you are when it comes to change. If you always resist change and it genuinely feels hard for you, that’s ok. Knowing that is powerful information because you can start to bring some compassion and understanding to yourself and start separating out your fear from the actual change, seeing it for what it is.

Ask yourself: Do I always resist change?
If change is hard for you this is good to know so you can begin to work on letting go of your attachment to how things are, with compassion for yourself.

Start testing yourself

If you know that certain situations or decisions always make you feel shy or scared, start practicing stepping outside your comfort zone even a little bit to show to yourself you can do it. I’ve always put myself in challenging situations and purposely changed things up purely to prove to myself that I can do it. I worked in face-to-face sales roles and actively sought speaking opportunities in work to overcome fear of public speaking. I changed countries and careers and relationships. All of these were scary moves, every time, yet all of them were fulfilling in their own way, and most importantly – I didn’t die! The more I practiced change and getting out of that comfort zone the more evidence I had that I could overcome fear.

Ask yourself: What comfort zones can I start to challenge?
Start with small fears – say the thing, make the decision, take the jump.

Don’t fuel the fear

Sharing isn’t always caring. Be careful who you share your fears with, if at all. I often only tell people about my fears after the event, to avoid them being given more power. I choose to either keep them to myself or to only tell people who I know will provide nothing but support and motivation.

Ask yourself: Is there anyone I can share my fears with that will encourage me?
If not, try writing about them but don’t share with anyone with more fear than you!

Get comfortable in the not knowing

This is a biggie for getting around the paralysis of fear. Not knowing what’s going to happen can simply stop us in our tracks. But how can we ever know? We can’t. We have to muster the courage to act without ever knowing if what we are doing will be a success. What if it goes wrong? Well it might. And it’s certainly wise to doubt and question things before acting, but at some point you either have to take the risk and enjoy the ride, or let it go. It might also be the best thing you’ve ever done.

Ask yourself: Which will be worse – failing or not trying?
Start to love the unknown and try things for the sake of trying, not the outcome.

Remember the one thing you can be sure of

We’re all heading one way, and one way only. None of us know for certain when we will die but the we know for sure that we will. This may sound morbid but to overcome fear I like to imagine myself on my deathbed reviewing my life, the whole incredible adventure, and if I will have any regrets. This is the single biggest motivator for me as my goal in life is to look back and not have any regrets whatsoever. Which means if I think I will regret not doing something then I have to act on it now. Opportunities then become responsibilities to my future self.

Ask yourself: Will I regret not doing this when I’m dying?
If yes, you get to change the story now!

Tune into your body

To make decisions when I feel stuck due to fear, I use a method taught to me during a life coaching session with a wonderful friend and mentor a number of years ago. First I check in with my gut to see how it feels: even if fear is there, is there excitement? Then I check in with my heart: does it feel safe with this decision? If yes to both then I know my head will figure out the rest. I’ve used this so many times since that session and it has always proven to be a successful method for making decisions. We spend so much time in our heads, with worry and fear, it becomes hard to be clear with all the noise going on. Our bodies are intelligent and giving us signs all the time, we just have to learn to listen to them.

Ask yourself: What does my gut say? How does this feel in my heart?
If all signs lead to yes, then this is your answer.

Trust, breathe and just do it

You’ve made the decision, you know you’ll regret not doing it, so there is only one thing for it. Trust yourself and take the action. I remember my teacher standing in front of me during practice when I was about to drop back from standing into a back bend for the first time on my own, after years of preparing for this moment. He simply stood there repeating: trust yourself, trust yourself, trust yourself…over and over and over until I finally took deep breaths and did it. That point of surrender – that’s where courage comes in. Fear can practically stop the breath so take some deep breaths and to overcome and just do.

Ask yourself: Do I trust myself?
Breathe and just do it!

See fear as an opportunity to grow

Just the act of walking through fear, being courageous, is a huge opportunity to grow and show yourself what you’re made of. My whole life I had a major, uncontrollable (I believed) fear of all things medical, especially needles, and used to faint or vomit every single time I went to the doctor or dentist. But my story about this actually fueled the fear, until one day I decided to change it and tricked my mind into being excited about going to the doctor, and it worked! The more I practiced this the more control over my fear I gained. Now I can handle medical stuff to the point of being able to visit a cadaver lab as part of a yoga training. I would never have imagined I could do that even a few years ago.

Ask yourself: How can I grow from this challenge?
It’s always possible to change your story about fears.

Celebrate and repeat

Celebrate any time you act despite fear, not the outcome of your actions, this is secondary. That feeling, the knowing, the winning against fear is the driver to overcome more fear, the evidence that you can do it! Jumping out of a plane taught me this. It was one of the most terrifying things I ever did, and it took years to build up the courage, but I did it and all I remember thinking is,” wow, if I can do this I can do anything!!” Experience the joy from being brave. And once you get comfortable – time to face yet another fear!

Tell yourself: I am courageous. I can do anything!
Yes, you are. And yes, you can.

Courage is needed endlessly year in the world right now. So join me in acting despite fear, in not being held back due to some beliefs about yourself that no longer need to be true, dare to change your story, and aim to look back with no regrets because fear didn’t win – you did.


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How fascinating it is that the human heart, the muscular mega-pump that delivers oxygenated blood around our bodies and the center of our circulatory systems, is also the center of our emotions. Its emotional capacity is vast, from the ability to feel love, compassion and to care very deeply, to sadness, pain, anger and even hate.

“The ability to have compassion for others depends first on our ability to be in touch with our yearnings and pain. Pain opens us to deeper understanding of others and expands our own limited being.” – Anodea Judith

At a recent visit to Cambodia I stood at a mass grave of 450 people at one of the main killing fields, feeling physical pain in my heart, as tears started to roll down my face. It was too much endure for long. I wondered how I could feel so deeply for something that happened in another country 40 years ago, to the point of feeling genuine pain. I knew about the atrocities that occurred there before going. So what was it that I was experiencing while I was actually there at the site of all the violence? Pain for those that suffered. Utter sadness at the brutality possible from one human to another. Grief for the country. Fear that we are no better in the world right now. All of it. I wondered what happened the perpetrators hearts to be able to murder their fellow country-men, women and children.

These were the thoughts that stayed with me as I walked around, sensitive to the dark energy of the mass graves, staring in disbelief at the piles of skulls in the memorial temple, and for long after. It made me think about the full capacity of the human heart and the influences that determine whether the emotional heart develops with compassion, kindness, caring, versus being blocked-off to love and harboring hate.

Naturally the violent acts came from somewhere. In this case the power-hungry Khmer Rouge recruited poor villagers, often teenagers, and trained them to torture and kill in the name of Communism vs. Capitalism. The villagers joined out of fear of not having other options in life, with anger instilled in them against city people who were painted as capitalists stealing all the wealth. It was fear and anger that fueled the hate and violence. Turning people against each other from a pointless cause — how many times has this happened in human history and continues to take place today. The ‘them and us’ approach used to divide and pit people against each other, which never seems to work except to benefit those with the mission. We can do better, I know.

“The good news is that “us and them” does not have to mean “us versus them.” Instead, it can remind us of the ancient tradition of hospitality to the stranger and give us a chance to translate it into twenty-first century terms. Hospitality rightly understood is premised on the notion that the stranger has much to teach us. It actively invites “otherness” into our lives to make them more expansive, including forms of otherness that seem utterly alien to us. Of course, we will not practice deep hospitality if we do not embrace the creative possibilities inherent in our differences.” ~ Parker J. Palmer’s Habits of the Heart

The reality is, we all have the ability to love or to hate. We might think we are above violence of that sort, but how many little ways do we contribute to the harm of others every day in our words or thoughts? Hate for a politician, or a criminal, or a racist, is still hate. I know I have had those thoughts and feelings and said I hate something. It doesn’t feel good. It separates and divides. Whereas there is nothing more beautiful than feeling deep love. And in a state of feeling love it’s practically impossible to feel hate. It also goes that as hate fuels hate, as does love fuel love. Love can be cultivated simply by practicing giving more love.

Is love all we need though? How do we lift a country out of racism, for example, if not by fighting it? Activism with compassion, understanding and action is a way that many teach. I can despair at the sad state of the world and unending brutalities but I can also marvel at the continued movement towards positive activism and an openness within myself and others to learn and live the philosophies that promote compassion over violence. Yoga teaches ‘ahimsa’ or causing the least amount of harm on the world. Buddhism teaches compassion for all. The original concept of all religions contain some ideology around treating all people with kindness. Easier said then done but I believe it’s up to all of us individually instead of relying on leaders to show the way. We are the ones that need to learn how to develop a kind heart, and to lead by example by actually practicing kindness in the place of fear and anger. Feeling the pain of ‘the other side’ and attempting to dismantle those barriers, those walls. Cultivating the heart in the right way by being mindful of the words we use, the thoughts we have about others.

There are many reasons for the heart to become bitter, blocked, contracted and unable to express its full capacity of love. Childhood trauma, abuse or neglect for sure contribute to difficulties expressing the full capacity of one’s heart. In the book Eastern Body Western Mind, the author, Anodea Judith, describes how abuse and lack of love growing up can affect someone:

“Abuse is the antithesis of love. If we do not get the love we need, we lack the basic ingredient necessary to assemble ourselves…Abuse interferes with our love of life. If life hurts, or is lonely, rejecting, empty, hostile, or dangerous, then we do not want to relate to it. Life becomes a painful experience, a process to be endured. We no longer love being alive; we no longer meet life with hope and enthusiasm. We become withdrawn, depressed, blocked.”

An unsteady foundation as a child therefore can lead to an adult walking around with a deep sense of not feeling good enough, perhaps trying to do good in the world, but really inside suffering with a deep dislike of themselves. The author adds:

“The most common block in the heart chakra is the absence of self-love. How can we have intimacy with others if we are distanced from our own self? How can we reach out to others when we are drowning in shame and criticism? How can we maintain balance between ourselves and others if we have no balance within? How can we treat another with respect if we treat our own selves abusively?”

Experiencing hatred and discrimination anytime in life can of course cause someone to live in fear that easily turns into anger and hatred. They can hardly be blamed. But when you are able to overcome fear and to learn self-love, you gain courage and empathy. For those of us privileged enough to not be experiencing discrimination, violence, hatred or oppression in our lives we can make efforts to take care of our hearts and to heal what needs to be healed within ourselves, which naturally has a positive affect on others.

To practically develop the full capacity of our hearts and to overcome its shadow side involves effort — to practice care, to practice love, to be kind, to be active in its cultivation. Therapy can be useful for dealing with past pain. While yoga, breath work and meditation are all shown to help overcome healthy heart blockers such as stress, anxiety and depression by improving vagal tone. The vagus nerve reports back to our brains what’s going on in our organs, including the heart, lungs and gut. “Stimulation of the vagus nerves by yoga based practices, corrects parasympathetic nervous system under activity leading to correction of GABA under activity” – Paul Dallaghan. GABA is an amino acid that acts as a neurotransmitter in the central nervous system, inhibiting nerve transmission in the brain and calming nervous activity.

One such practice, the daily contemplation that we teach at Samahita is a powerful way to cultivate a kind heart. A short daily practice that first focuses on gratitude for all in our lives. Then looking at forgiveness, asking for it from others and saying sorry, and offering it to others and to ourselves, to clear our hearts from pain, guilt, shame. Finally, asking for guidance to lift ourselves up out of our own tiny worlds, asking guidance to be kinder, or whatever help we need in life. Self work and self kindness every day in these small ways is a starting point.

“When you are able to get out of the shell of your small self, you will see that you are interrelated to everyone and everything, that your every act is linked with the whole of humankind and the whole cosmos. To keep yourself healthy in body and mind is to be kind to all beings.” – Thich Nhat Hanh

The feeling I experienced at those mass graves, that real pain, was good in my mind. It was a shocking reminder how connected we all are and how important it is to care. It has inspired me to check myself, to commit to cultivating a caring, kind heart, one that cares enough to attempt to understand, but also to act. We need bridges not division. A slightly hateful heart can become more hateful, closing off the heart’s beautiful capacity for love. Whereas a heart that continues to grow and expand is far less likely to hate and only contributes to more love in the world. Let’s love our human hearts and work to use their full capacity, unblocking, clearing, healing and cultivating kindness to others. Life is too short not to.
“With humility, with awareness of the existence of life, and of the suffering that are going on around us, let us practice the establishment of peace in our hearts and on earth.” – Thich Nhat Hanh


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